As An Alpha Woman…

Written by Cherise Peterson


1) You Are A Superhero

You are a strong, independent woman. You can do everything for yourself, and wear a

killer pair of jeans while you are at it.


As a strong woman we don’t need a man to pick up the pieces of our lives: we’ve got

that covered.


2) You Know What You Want in Life

Nothing is more intimidating to another human being than being in the presence of a

woman who knows what we want in life and isn’t afraid to go after it. Having the guts

to take risks to find success is very intimidating to people, especially to people who are

used to being the one that are the providers. They generally do not like being the ones

that have to be provided for.


3) You Cherish Honesty and Vulnerability

As an alpha female, you know that it takes a real balance of being honest and letting

yourself be vulnerable to the world to find success.


You have to be frank with yourself about your strengths and weaknesses, and you have

to be willing to confront those weaknesses. We expect our men to be able to face their

weakness and find a way to confront them, but at the same time be strong.


4) You are Comfortable with Intimacy

As a strong woman, we aren’t intimidated by being intimate, both physically and

mentally. As a confident woman, we are sexy in and out of the bedroom, and

sometimes we are intimidate men due to this confidence, but a strong man will be

attracted to it.

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5) You Can Read People Well

We are strong because we know who we are inside and out and that’s a part of what

makes us strong. This kind of connection, we can spot when someone is bullshitting

us. When something doesn’t feel right or someone doesn’t feel right, its because they

don’t align with what we want and what we expect in life. It doesn’t take long to figure

out when someone is lying to us. We can spot that a mile away.


6) You Respect Others and Demand Respect Yourself

As a resilient woman, we not only respect ourselves but we demand respect from other

people. They don’t do this by walking around with a chip on our shoulder though; in

fact, just the opposite: we are living our live the way we want, and some can’t handle



People need to show you respect at all turns because you’ll show them the same kind

of respect.


7) You are Intense

Sometimes you are hot, and sometimes you are cold. You love hard, live hard, play

hard, work hard. Everything you do is intense.

You are getting the most out of your life.

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8) You Know Your Worth

You don’t need anyone to tell you what you are worth, you need someone who knows

what you are worth.


9) You Give Things Your All

Whether you are washing dishes or chairing a board meeting at your company,

everything gets 100% of your attention.


That’s how you’ve made it this far and found so much success in your life. As strong

women, we don’t back down from a challenge and are ready to take everything on with

100% of our being.


10) You Encourage Others to Be Their Best Selves

I know as a strong woman, we can get the job done. We know that we aren’t perfect,

and we are working on improving ourselves and our own lives every day. If you

someone is lucky enough to be in a relationship with us, you will become your best

self, because we work on being our best selves daily. We expect that from our other

half, and they will thank us for that in the end.


11) You Like to Be in Charge

It used to be that men would run the show, but that’s not happening as much any more

and some can not wrap their head around that fact. They are stuck in a society that

men did everything outside of the house while women stayed home and took care of

everything inside of the house. We are now not only raising children, and taking care of

the house, but we also do it alone. We run successful companies, and we still find time

to make sure that we are taking care of ourselves as well. Some can not handle this


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12) You Don’t “Need” a Man in Your Life

Just as it says you don’t need a man. You “want” to have one. There’s a big difference.

Don’t have one because you think you need one, have one because you want to have a

man around.


Yes men may not like this. Make this clear from the get go in a relationship. Some men

do like the idea of being needed. Why because it makes them feel as they are powerful

and some will use that against you.


Men will not admit that this need to be needed by a woman is them showing their own

need, but a strong man will also know that the woman is not needed but he wants her

to be with him. They won’t feel intimidated when a woman feels this way as well.


13) You Have a Strong Personality

We as an alpha female has a strong personality and we are not afraid to speak our

mind. So when you start standing up for yourself and challenging conventional

wisdom, some people don’t know how to act.


After all, despite the leaps and bounds that we as women have made in society, there

are still people out there who would have you believe that women are the weaker sex.

Of course, it’s simply not true, but these cliches do hold many women back from

chasing our own dreams.


Everyone should be lifting women up instead of trying to beat them down. Everyone

benefits when we are given the space we need to become what we were meant to be.

Some do not want to be apart of that though.


14) You’re a feminist

Some people think feminism is a sign that they are weaker. But there is room for

everyone to be great on this planet. It’s not a competition, and we as women know

that, but some still feel intimidated by a strong, independent woman who knows what

she wants and is not afraid to go against the grain to get it.

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Some people would rather than women return to a place of submission and not stand

out in the crowd.


15) You’re okay with being “the provider”

“Bringing home the bacon” is still a very real thing for men in today’s society, but with

more of us women taking home the bacon on our own, the need for a man on our arm

is becoming less and less important to us as alpha women.


What’s scary for people is that they are quickly realizing that being a provider might be

all they were traditionally good for, because if we are passing up people because we

don’t need their financial support, what does that say about their personalities and the

other qualities they bring to the table…not much.


You’re perfectly okay with looking after yourself, your family and your lover because

you can handle any responsibility thrown onto your shoulders.


16) You’re okay with taking control

An alpha female, we are perfectly okay with taking control and leading the charge.

Whether it’s in the bedroom, at work, or with friends, we like to be lead the way so that

everyone can succeed.

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